Yeah, that sounds like her. She digs some, but only when bored. And the stripes will disapear. And her patern gives the impresion of a male. She has a lot of spoting for a female, that was one of the things I really liked about her. You know its strange seeing my fish in someone elses tank. I had her since she was 7 weeks old, and she's about 2 years old now. Its good to here she is doing well, don't feel shy to post a million pics and videos of her. She is well worth showing off.